In order to accurately know the outlook on love from today’s college students and help them to grow healthily,this paper condutes a questionnaire survey on college students from six colleges and universities in China.The result showes that college students are emotional in outlook on love,emotive in love frustration and idealized in sex concept,which has brought new challenges to educational management for colleges and universities.There are 3 reasons:enhancement of students’self-consciousness,poor love and marriage education in colleges and universities and confrontation between traditional thought and modern thought.Therefore,this paper proposes that university should pay more attention to people-orientated education and guide students to reasonably deal with emotional problems through strengthening education of sense of responsibility,adversity quotient education,sexual and reproductive health education,etc.so as to ensure the healthy growth of college students.